“Trust Nobody”-I Barged Into My Son’s Room Without Knocking, What I Saw Got Me Hospitalized For Two Days
means that we respect their privacy and in return, they should learn to respect our privacy and that of others as well.
It might be a little understandable if our kids are still I’m their late ten’s and not when they are above the age of ten, once our kids are above the age of ten we owe them that little respect of not intruding on their privacy. This I am saying with a loud voice judging on what I experienced in my own home, let me take the time to share with you my experience perhaps it could be of help to someone out there.
I live very happily with my husband and my only son, I have been married for about 25 years and have a grown-up son of 29 years, he is the only product of our union with my husband, we all love him so much that we always give him special attention and treat him like an egg.
I made my son my friend, my father, my husband, he was literally my everything to me. As a result of this I always barge into his room without knocking at anytime and at any day, my son never hides anything away from me, we are free with each other to every extent you can think of.
Things began to change when he was in his late 18’s and 20’s. My son to my greatest surprise for the first time I went to his room and realize it was locked from the inside while he was in, at that point I knocked, and he opened, my mind didn’t even try to notice how strange that was, I just thought it to be a mistake or something.
Some time after that, my son confronted me and asked me to please always knock his door before entering, I was kind of stunned for a moment I looked at him and laughed thinking it was his numerous jokes, I took that for granted and made joke of it, already am used to the habit of checking on him always where I barge into his room without knocking.
As this was going on, my son confronted me three consecutive times to please stop barging into his room without knocking but I was still adamant about it and continue to barge in. On this faithful day, I went to call him early in the morning, so we can go for jugging as we usually do.
Upon reaching to his door, I just pushed the door and enter inside, what I saw that day was a mystery I am yet to fully recover from, my son was literally floating in the air around his bed, his body was right above the bed with the blanket covering him, I thought I was actually dreaming but it was true, I don’t know what happened after then, all I could see was myself waking up on a hospital bed
I had actually passed out when I saw this strange thing, at this point, I was completely convinced when I regained consciousness that my son was in some kind of witchcraft or wizardry activities that we all don’t know. However, my son narrated that what he did was actually a prank to scare me, so I will take him serious when he said I should always knock his door before entering.
At this point I don’t k ow what else to believe, I just thought that I learned my lesson the hard way. Since after then, I don’t even go close to his room, I stay from a distance and call him out. So please Parent’s your case might be worse than this. Respect your children’s privacy. Till this moment I don’t know if my son is actually a wizard or it was a prank.